Poet Elena Likhach about her divorce.
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2022-08-28 at 09:40 #2256harrisingramGuest
Poet Elena Likhach about her divorce.
Divorce… In society, where it is in cult the institution of the family, under such word implied “collapse, end heavenly family life, helplessness support passion and adoration between spouses”.
Various, having risen on the path of dissolution of family, subjected to public condemnation. I have nothing to hide, before that independently unfriendly looked at the “hands down”. Who cognized what once I personally I will be the same as they…
Currently directly under data deafening word I understand “free, ability cozy get along with ex-husband in 1 parallels”. Close, knowing the whole situation from within, follow the same reasonings.
Elena Likhach husband
What thinks about absolutely everything this personal environment? Lens, not attractive! It is my choice. This is my life.
True, here we are decided get a divorce! Not immediately.
Efforts leave the marriage has been made (and made hundred times ). Debauches, complaints, demands… What specifically only not at all acted in the course! And then, one fine morning waking up both of them in their bed, we understood: “That’s enough!”. See, absolutely all discussed and given demand for divorce.
Not I will keep quiet, during 2-uh extreme years all of us existed separately. Just like everyone else: “Let’s take a pause in relationships?!” -“For me needed time!” – “Well not at all mind in case babies spend time with me at the weekend?”. Over time given marriage becomes obsolete. Preferably, at the time when in his apartment you find clothes other.
Now should to tell the truth , at the time when comes this period, you now you don’t strain. Spectacle ended! You personally finally-
then you can be yourself. You personally not required invent, invent reasons.
You personally simply sitting together with him and talking. You communicate as with a beloved, which today knows, which pleasant music do you love, which color you useful clothes, what is real you become exercise on own weekend.
With children also difficulties not present. Father they respect, communicate with him, how much intend. What a trouble that mother and father thinking get a divorce! Family was, is and will be remained by the family. Yes, established by opinion they do not completely . As if again, and other all people from our environment.
And everyone because that we never themselves couple, doomed to divorce!
You understand we are not of those, who exactly prepared to each other in your hair in full view of everyone.
Remember border sanctioned.
Currently present complaints? Speech them to each other personally (without outside ears and hearing aids).
Play on guests we not at all must. Some thinks in a different way? Well, OK! Everyone close.
I personally, together not at all supporter hysterical.
Yes, and for what purpose them together commit?! My person gained harmony, I continue save seductive, I free (spoiler: under primitive clothes phenomenal erotic lingerie).
What to me personally to be afraid? What today? So, past life partner participates in their promoting.
And children now already rather big (are in this age, when always can execute their support ).
In advance delivering personal forgiveness, but find, what in turn dissolution of marriage tremble only such ladies,
which specifically not used to exist independent.
About these heard “behind the husband as behind a stone wall”. Encountered with danger dissolution,
such ladies excite frantically resist.
For what reason? Because before he settle family nuances, he produced.
And now everything without exception this she will have to perform most!
Himself I am divorced observing reality”conceive life again”. Yes it was! Yes, it’s gone! You are not alone.
Life activity beautiful, and it is generally strives. Main, do not lose your person!
With all that my opinion distribute not at all all without exception.
“What a tragedy!” – shouted only one of all my acquaintances, by finding out about the further divorce. And in what, for example,
in terms of calamity? Efficient dissemble? Best that everyone without exception ideal, and at night sobbing crying into cushion? No fire! Such really not my situation…